5.4 Centering Black Women

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In this episode, we’re talking with Sophie Williams, AKA OfficialMillennialBlack on Insta, about her upcoming book, not centering whiteness, and the love triangle between fatphobia, racism, and misogyny.

Bookclub: Fearing the Black Body / Black Owned Bookstores 

Here are some more questions and thoughts to guide your reading and reflection of the first two chapters of Sabrina String's Fearing the Black Body:

  • First of all, I wanted to give you some thoughts on how to approach a more academic book, if you're new to or unfamiliar with this kind of reading! 1. If you run across words you don't know, feel free to look them up! Approaching a more academic text like this is a balance of looking things up and using context clues to noodle out what's going on and accepting you might not understand every sentence exactly. 2. Make sure you read the intro! It's a little dense, but it's a great layout of the overall argument the book will make and the plan for that argument, which helps me situate my reading and helps with those context clues. 3. Look at endnotes! They can be both fun, interesting, and helpful in exploring a text like this. Note 20, for example, gives you a handy list of other books about fatness to read. Endnotes can also give you more rich detail that the author wanted to share but doesn't quite fit in the sequential steps of the argument being made. 4. Don't hesitate to make notes of things, concepts, sentences you don't understand or don't remember and might be interested in further reading or googling of! I spent a little time looking at some of the artists mentioned in Chapter 1 on wikipedia and google images, for example. Okay, now questions - send us your answers to these, if you'd like to be featured!

  • 1. Have you ever noticed a focus on "concerns over ascetics, not aesthetics" (p.63) in portrayals of the fatness or thinness of men? How might our modern imaginings of a lean, lanky academic/intellectual character play into this? (I hope this idea is tracked more throughout the book, it's a super interesting one!)

  • 2. If you've ever wandered through a museum from art of this time period, or looked at it in books, have you ever been presented with this kind of lens? What are the general ways you've been taught to look at artworks that are missing a lens of racial analysis?

  • 3. Can you sum up the arguments being made in chapters one and two in a few sentences?

  • 4. How does it feel to view cultural attitudes towards fatness as having changed over time, instead of from within the current cultural moment which seeks to impose a universality on our fatphobia?

  • Take a further look into the types of Renaissance paintings that Dr. Strings analyzes in Chapter 1. Then, take out a paper and draw yourself. Think about what you focus on, and why. 

  • Journal about how art and storytelling play a role in perpetuating anti-Black racism in the Chapter 2. How has this changed from then till now? How has it remained the same? In what ways are we complicit?

Resources on “Womxn” vs “Women”: this twitter thread / this video on the origin of the phrase “women of color”  / the body is not an apology article

The Meat of It: Sophie Williams / Millennial Black / Insta post that started it all / Slay in Your Lane / All the Women Are White, All the Blacks Are Men, But Some of Us Are Brave / Candice Brathwaite / Bizarre & Racist History of the bmiHow we fail black patients’ pain / Nonwhite patients get less pain relief in US emergency rooms / post: how black people in the UK are disproportionately being affected by COVID / BAME Britains twice as likely to die from COVID / Govt Censorship on BAME report / how to cope if you're a black woman and feeling exhausted / the trevor project / pre-order millennial black 
Sophie’s picks: anti-racist ally / keeping up the momentum / for black women who are exhausted 

Call to Action: Read “What, to Black Lives, is the 4th of July?” by Antwan Herron.

Read, reflect, and share this piece over this weekend — the 4th. Remember that when we call July 4th “Independence Day,” who that Independence included. 

“This Fourth of July is yours, not mine. You may rejoice, I must mourn. To drag a man in fetters into the grand illuminated temple of liberty, and call upon him to join you in joyous anthems [is] inhuman mockery and sacrilegious irony.” - Frederick Douglass 


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5.3 Getting Off

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In this episode, we’re talking about sex and intimacy in quarantine with Sonalee Rashatwar AKA the Fat Sex Therapist!

Bookclub: Fearing the Black Body / Black Owned Bookstores 

The Meat of It: Sonalee Rashatwar / @thefatsextherapist / Radical Therapy Center / Sonalee article on Bitch / Clementine Morrigan / What is Shadow Work and where to start / Sexual Shadow Integration Work / Gaby Herstik / Grounding Techniques for Self-Soothing / Self-Hold exercise / Big Big Love / Dana Hamilton / Teen Vogue — Health benefits of masturbation / Crash Pad / kink.com / b-vibe  

Resources on Israel, Palestine, and Zionism:  USCPR / The Palestinian Youth Movement / Jewish Voice for Peace / BDS / Amnesty International / Within Our Lifetime / The Guardian / Palestinian’s Podcast / The Queer Arabs Podcast

CALL TO ACTION: Support Black Sex Workers

From The Black Sex Worker Collective, “Demand economic justice for all our workers and artists who are being left out of financial support conversations by local government. You can do that by helping The Black Sex Worker Collective raise money and awareness to directly support impacted communities, which is all too often Black and POC members of society.” 

Read more about the bswc’s work here / Buy Tickets to “Who’s Allowed to Make Money - Workers in Solidarity.” / Donate to the event's GoFundMe / Follow, share, and uplift the bswc on social media! 


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5.2 Keeping Kind

**CW: In this episode, we will be discussing some specifics of resurfacing disordered eating behavior and thoughts**

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In this episode, Sophie talks with Whitney Catalano of the Trust Your Body Project about how the pandemic and quarantine and general worldly upheaval can have repercussions for anyone who’s felt pressure to change the way they’ve eaten in the past. 

Anti-racist bookclub: Fearing the Black Body / Black Owned Bookstores 

The Meat of It: Whitney Catalano / Christy Harrison / Food Pysch podcast / The Truth about COVID-19 and Weight / Trust Your Body Project / Fat Ch-Ch-Ch-Changes / National Bail Out Fund

THIS WEEK’S ACTION ITEM: Listen to Black Trans Women. 

From Transgender Gender-Variant & Intersex Justice Project, “Black trans women experience violence, trauma, and deep losses across our community every single day. We know what we need to survive, to thrive, and to create the world we’re all fighting for. It is time to invest not only in the solutions, but the actual people that have shaped & sharpened the solutions we need based on our lived experiences. We are capable & competent enough to take care of our own, we just need the resources to do so.” Read the full statement in response to the murder of Muhlaysia Booker.  

Watch this webinar on State & Gender Violence in Black Communities. DM us when you start to hold yourself accountable. Follow TGIJPjustice on instagram, post about them in your story, and tag us so we can repost


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5.1 Sleeping Over

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In the series premiere of Staying In with She’s All Fat, we’re talking about protesting against anti-black racism and violence, starting a bookclub, and catching you up on what’s changing at SAF HQ.  

Resources on anti-black violence and how to help: a (very non-comprehensive) list of names of black folks killed by the police since Eric Garner's death in 2014 / Police brutality against Black Women / Tony McDade, Nina Pop, Monika Diamond, and other Black trans lives lost to police violence / Thread of petitions (CW)

Anti-Racist Bookclub: Fearing the Black Body / Black Owned Bookstores 

The Meat of it: Becky / Dazey LA shirt (use code SAF) / Earios / Foxy Browns / Maria / Ten Percent Happier / Laila / Builders / Laila's site / Lynn / Yeli

Check out our friends in the podcasting world: Girl Tales and REBEL EATERS CLUB

CALL TO ACTION: Donate to the National Bail Out Fund!

“NBO is a Black-led and Black-centered collective of abolitionist organizers, lawyers and activists building a community-based movement to support our folks and end systems of pretrial detention and ultimately mass incarceration.” Send us a copy of your receipt and we’ll match your donation! 


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4.17 A Little Fat Review

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This week we’ll take a behind the scenes look at this past season!

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In this episode: 

 

We’re Obsessed: Years and Years / Euphoria / Big Little Lies / April’s new podcast / April’s new TV show /Strawberry Belts </3 / Depop / lh,ll / stridex for your bike shorts / Not Pot CBD gummies / Rosebud CBD(use code SAFLOVESROSEBUD) / Follow Tasbeeh on Twitter 

 

The Meat of It: Maria / Lynn / our interim announcement ep / various mental breakdowns / April’s new podcast / April’s new TV show / Memes episode / Maria’s episode / Disability episode / First ep of season 4! / Queer bodies ep / our ep on HAIR / Maria and Sophie meet IRL / YAAAS! Fest (queer comedy fest) /Who Knows? Podcast (our sponsor, Maria’s old job, Lynn’s new job) / sensory deprivation tank / CYG on SocMeds  

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4.16 Queer Bodies with Tobin Low and Kathy Tu fro Nancy

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This week we’ll discuss queer bodies, soft physiques, and fat queer influencers—with hosts of WNYC’s Nancy TOBIN LOW AND KATHY TU!!! 

 

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Care/Of: a subscription service that delivers vitamins and supplements customized for your specific needs. For 25% off your first Care/of order, go to TakeCareOf.com and enter code SAF.

 

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In This Episode: 

 

We’re Obsessed: Beyoncé’s SPIRIT video / The Gift / Berna Boy ft / Brown Skin Girl / Beat Shazam clip /Lesse face oil / Banila Clean It Zero (code SAF10) / Neutrogena face wipes / Glossier milky jelly / Clinique Facial Balm / Madewell perfume / Glossier YOU / museum wax / Ana Luisa Jewelry (code SAF10) / Anklets! / Pearl Drop earrings / Zodiac collection / Chain extender / Art teacher earrings

 

Correction: Metronormativity / Jack Halberstam / Queer Eye article / King Princess misleading post

 

The Meat of It: Nancy / Tobin / Kathy / Personal Style with Jazzmyne Jay / Queer As Folk / Will & Grace /Nicolette Mason / Jazzmyne Jay / Nancy ep with Cameron Esposito / Corissa Enneking / Nico Santos in CRA / Kate Dillon / Fran on Shrill / Sam Irby / Alok V Menon / Jacob Tobia / Kathy’s dog’s insta 

 

Nancy episodes we recommend: The Day of Epiphany / The Gayly Grind / You've Told Me This Before /Bowen Yang was Fooled by Grey's Anatomy / It's Really You / Ring of Keys / Hello, Hello 

 

More reading on Queer Bodies: All Queer Bodies are Beach Bodies / Bear in Mind: Fatphobia Is Alive and Well, Even Within the Bear Community / Queer Bodies of Color / Compulsory Able-Bodiedness and Queer/Disabled Existence / Queer Theory Reading List / ED Recovery in a System Not Designed by Fat, Queer, Transgender People 

 

 

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4.15 Fattie EDU

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This week our Jr. Producer Lynn takes the reins as we chat about finals, anti-fat bias in academia, and all things uni!

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Rosmarino Candles: Use our candle code SAF at checkout to save 20% off your first full size purchase and/or 50% off your first month of a subscription. 

 

The Body Reconnect Tour: Click here for Tour information / Click here for Tickets (all cities) / Click herefor free facebook group for people interested in attending the tour in any city!

 

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In This Episode: 

 

We’re Obsessed: Sea Urchin Sand Dollar Video / @callyrgf / Virginia Frances Sterrett / Wiki Page / Old French Fairytales / Tanglewood Tales / This lotion / Lynn Loves Soccer Now / @mrapinoe / Just Break Up Podcast / Tuca & Bertie / King Princess 

 

Tip Jar: Listen to Nancy / Give us suggestions for next season!! 

 

The Meat of It: Lynn / Carleton College / Carleton Student Demographic Info / Carls Talk Back / Carls Talk Back on Fb / Carleton Professor Violated Sexual Misconduct Policy and Still Works at Carleton and the College Is Protecting Him / Hookup Culture / Defeat of Jesse James Days / Queer Eye trailer / CYG Real Queer America / Aren Aizura Mobile Subjects / 10 Things I Hate about You / New Life Thrift / Maria @bubulubufanclub / 2000s Fat Studies courses / Oberlin’s Critical Fat Studies / Oberlin Student Demographic Info / Fabulous and Big / The Body Positive leadership program / Lizzo Tweet 

 

Maria’s Follow Recs: @louisvuittoncrocs / @fatkyliejenner / @heyparkerday  

4.14 Our Fat Friend, @yrfatfriend

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This week we’ll discuss being anonymous online, fat visibility, and using your privilege for good. Sophie talks to anonymous fat activist and writer, Your Fat Friend!

 

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In This Episode: 

 

We’re Obsessed: Chloe x Halle who knew / Chernobyl / Chernobyl Pod / Alison Roman / Ricotta dumpling salad / Nothing Fancy (Alison Roman’s cookbook) / Salt Fat Acid Heat / #SorryLindsey / Love Island /Supergoop! tinted moisturizer / GLDN (code SAF for $5 off) 

 

The Meat of It: yrfatfriend / Medium article / The Fat Friend episode / A Draft Agenda for Fat Justice /Disability Justice episode / Kivan Bay / The Way We Talk about Our Bodies is Deeply Flawed / More Your Fat Friend essays / The Gifts of Fatness 



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